Compassion calls us forward into action. After noticing suffering, interpreting generously, and cultivating empathy, the final step is allowing care to take form in wise, courageous response. Compassionate action may not always fix what hurts, but it brings discernment and intention to what is possible. When we do this, we begin to reshape the systems around us. (This is the fourth in our four-part series on compassion.)

There are always going to be people who really push our buttons. Our natural, conditioned reaction when they shove in the wrong direction is to push back harder the other way. Rarely is this the most helpful response. Compassion as the response to difficult behaviors is the counterintuitive solution that leads to safety, connection, and belonging for all.